When you visit
Visiting a new church can be intimidating: What should I wear? Where do my kids go?
We understand the many thoughts that can come from visiting a new church, so we want you to feel completely comfortable when you visit. Below are some frequently asked questions. If you have any additional questions, contact us or talk with an usher when you visit.
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When are Masses?
See a full list of Mass times and locations here.
When is confession available?
Reconciliation times and locations can be found on our homepage, listed here after "News & Events".
What should I wear?
We should also come to the sacred liturgy appropriately dressed. As Christians we should dress in a modest manner, wearing clothes that reflect our reverence for God and that manifest our respect for the dignity of the liturgy and for one another (On Preparing to Receive Christ Worthily in the Eucharist).
Men should remove hats in church.
Where do my children go?
Children are invited to participate in Mass with their families in the pews. We offer breakout times for children during Sunday Masses each month, led by guided parish staff and volunteers.
I’m not Catholic, how do I know when to sit, stand and kneel?
Sit near the back and follow what you see others doing. This will become habit over time.
The priest will provide this instruction for special occasions. He also gives these instructions during weddings, funerals, and other special events.
I’m not Catholic, is it okay for me to participate in communion?
Only Catholics receive Catholic communion. Non-Catholics either remain in the pews during communion time, or come forward with their arms crossed over their chest for a prayer.
Everyone, including Catholics who do not receive communion, is invited to make an act of spiritual communion.
If you are interested in becoming Catholic, click here.
I have a hearing problem. Is there any special assistance?
Hearing assistance devices are available at all our parishes. Speak with an usher for assistance.
